Your pain is valid. Their words are cruel and unfair. However, staying in a state of pain by focusing on it will get you nowhere. They will think they have won and continue their vicious cycle of making you feel worthless, incapable, and insufficient. Listen to me right now, and repeat these words every moment of every day: You are worthy, you are capable, and you are sufficient.
I wish haters didn’t exist, I wish we all accepted one
another just as we are and focused on the more important matters. But, this
just isn’t reality so there is no point in wishing away our lives. Instead try
and make something good out of their cruelty. Refocus your energy and use their
gifts in a positive way. Tell them thank you.
Thank you for reminding me why I
need to be nice to people, why I should help others even when I don’t feel like
it, and why I should think twice before I speak or act. If it weren’t for their
daily torments you wouldn’t know what it feels like to be judged or stereotyped
and why it’s important not to do so in reverse. Above all, you wouldn’t know
how to recognize others being bullied and you wouldn’t feel a desire to stop it. There’s a reason for your pain, use it to make the world better.
Again, haters will always
exist. They are there when you are young and don’t understand what you have
done wrong. They are there as you get older and realize it’s nothing you’ve
done. Haters morph from being just another schoolmate to being your co-workers,
your boss’s, and even your best friends. Therefore you must live your life
exactly as you believe is right for you and under no circumstances change that
for anyone except yourself.
So everyone has the new Michael
Kors purse and your getting made fun of for just having a hand-me-down clutch?
You rock that clutch like it’s what’s up and coming and they are a part of yesterday’s
trend! So you got straight A’s and everyone is calling you a teacher’s pet,
boring, or nerd? Remember that education is the path to success and the key to
a positive future. If nothing else, remember that doing well in a school means
you’re more likely to be their boss in the future and then oh, how the tables
will turn. So you’ve stood up for your beliefs that women deserve equal rights
and now your being called a Femi Nazi and getting uninvited to social
engagements? Even for the greatest of leaders opening people’s minds has never
been an easy task that doesn’t mean your opinion is wrong, you’re just a leader
for those who are too scared yet to speak. Don’t let one non-invite disturb your focus on helping achieve a positive joyful change for an entire world.
See it is not haters you must be
worried about, but your own self. If you let them be your focus you will forget
who you believe yourself to be and will become who they say you are. They will
try and make you in to nothing, but you are here for a reason. You have two
eyes, two ears, two legs, two arms, and one brain to think about what you see, what you hear, where you go, and what/whom you hold. You alone make the choices. Think
them through thoroughly, than make them fully and completely. Own them. Let not
a sole damper your choices for only then can you say you have won.
You won. No matter what they say, and no
matter how they have made you feel, you have completely stood up for yourself
by making your own life choices and thus being exactly who you are.** You have
projected yourself out in to the universe as a new light, a unique light, a
light that no matter how are they have tried they have been unsuccessful in darkening.
Congratulations, and keep shining through the darkness.
**There will come a time when you
may not be happy with your choices. Only you have the power to change them.
Sometimes you will not feel capable of it and at this time the bully will
reside in your own head. Repeat to them just as you repeated to the haters in
world, you make the choices for your life. You choose.
XOXO
Girl--->WorldOPEN
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